SAFE HAVEN BABY DROP OFF

US Safe Haven Laws allow a parent to relinquish their unharmed infant to a designated Safe Haven provider within a specific time after birth. Each state has its own, unique Safe Haven law. While each law has similar components, the age and location restrictions differ per state.

If you have given birth and feel you cannot tell anyone and can't keep the baby there is a way. I will list the links to find the Safe Haven laws for each state. They will inform you where you can drop your baby off and what the laws for your state say.

Click on the title SAFE HAVEN above to see the links.

Welcome to RainDrops of Life

Please don't make any decision until you know ALL of your options and all that is involved in each option!

There is important information that you need before a decision is made, especially if you are leaning towards abortion. No knowing the information can turn into a life threatening situation. Information not only helps you decide what option is best for you, it could save your life.

I know there are a lot of voices out there saying bad things about Pregnancy Care Centers but PLEASE take the time to find the truth. First of all look at who makes money on your decision. These center are free. They do not make one cent on any decision you make. Even if you decide to have an abortion.

Yes, we are pro-life. We would love to see every baby have a chance at life. But we love the mom also. Many in these centers have been in a place where they didn’t know what to do about an unplanned pregnancy. But please give them a chance to show you that they care and will do whatever they can to make sure you are totally informed and walk with you through this. These are good people that are volunteering their precious time to help you. I would say that shows how much they care.

I am committed to try to provide you with every resource you need to make an informed pregnancy decision. I believe women and men have a right to get evidence-based information from a resource that will not profit from the choices you make.

A word from Ingrid Skop, M.D., FACOG

Unplanned Pregnancy?

Just stop! Take a deep breath! YOU HAVE CHOICES!

Please don’t let ANYONE railroad you into a decision without knowing what your options are and what will work best for you and your baby. You are the only one that can make this choice so please get yourself well informed on all options. This is one of the biggest decisions you will make in your life and your life could depend on it. Information is power. If you are well informed no one can coerce you into something you may regret later.

Post Abortion Care

Abortion? Miscarriage? Still Birth? What Now?

I am working also on resources and aid for women who have had a miscarriage, still birth or other loss. All of these losses are alike in very many ways.

No matter what put you into the situation to have an abortion, abortion can be a devastating event that haunts or hurts you for the rest of your life. Please don’t listen to people who tell you this will go away or belittles your suffering in any way. Post abortion suffering is a lot more common than people will tell you. Women who have had an abortion often don’t talk to anyone about it out of fear of judgement, losing someone dear or just pure shame at what you did.

There is love, compassion and a desire to help you out there. There are organizations with many different ways of helping. Look through these sites and find one that you would feel most comfortable with. You will find some wonderful and creative ways to get past this.

There are organizations that are totally dedicated to this issue. But most of the Pregnancy Care clinics offer care also. Most offer aid not only to mothers but to the dads also. They will work with you on what will best help you. Everyone is different and has needs that others may not have. I pray with all of my heart that you will not suffer alone. There really are people that care and will stand with you.

The Adoption Option

If you feel that you cannot raise this child please consider adoption. There are almost 40 couples waiting for a child for every one abortion in America. Adoption has changed a lot since your grandma's day. There are a wide range of adoption choices. From no contact with the child to being a part of their lives and seeing them grow.

Abortion Laws by State

Find the abotion laws specifically for your state. I have done a brief summay for each state but you can see the whole law by clicking on your state name.

The Hippocratic Oath

History of The Hippocratic Oath. Doctors used to take this oath, swearing to do no harm. It has been revised over the years and today's version does not even swear to preserve life.

Life has no value in our country anymore.
Not even to those that we put our lives in their hands.

Wise Words

The Creator will not hold us guiltless if we turn a deaf ear to the cries
of His innocent babies. So come and get me if you must, Mr. President.
I will not bow before your wicked regulation.
~ Dr. James Dobson ~